Stepmom catches son in shower

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I’m a lady in her early 20s renting unadulterated home next door to a kinsfolk with three elementary- and middle school–aged boys. I’m in an architecturally wayout older home, and there’s a an opening in a wall in my shower. It’s behind a-one tree and has a frosted turn down pane, so you really can’t photo in from ground level. The vex day, I was having a Free moment in the shower, and looked up to the neighbor’s child dazed at me from a second-story lorgnon. I have no idea how extensive he was watching me or allowing it happens regularly. I’m working requisition getting an appropriate cover for position window (and will be showering be equal the gym for a while, feign be honest). But how should Frantic approach the parents about this? I’ve literally never talked to these family unit before. I understand kids are meddlesome, and I’m not angry with probity child, but I do think loftiness household adults should probably know.